For most of her adult life, Amanda had somewhere to live, but nowhere she really belonged. As a single parent attending college, Amanda lived with her mother, a relationship she described as, “highly dependent.” When her mother was evicted from their home, Amanda and her young son were forced to depend on friends and relatives for a place to live.
“After I finished my classes, I left my friend’s house because I didn’t want to be a burden,” Amanda remembers. She went to stay with a family member, but that situation had challenges as well. “Mark and I had to leave again. That was when I lost my job.”
With no job and no real home, Amanda finally recognized that she had a dependency problem – not on drugs or alcohol, but on other people.